Cruyff Posted February 24 Share Posted February 24 Picture this... You're happy in an a relationship but have serious chemistry with a very attractive work colleague with a banging body. What do you do? Asking for a friend.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FWJ Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 Grow up, ignore the infatuation / crush and concentrate on your relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Der Kaiser Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 Kill them both. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cade Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 Grab some popcorn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
il Duce McTarkin Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 41 minutes ago, Der Kaiser said: Kill them both. @Cruyff, do you have a sizeable patio? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henrysmithsgloves Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 Are you coming out @Cruyff🤣 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 Oh dear someone’s been on the sauce tonight 😂😂…… if you were really happy in said relationship you wouldn’t even think of someone else . Sorry to be a Debbie Downer I’m a bit old fashioned about the commitment in a relationship unless it’s been agreed there’s an open relationship. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 5 minutes ago, henrysmithsgloves said: Are you coming out @Cruyff🤣 No another one !!! There can be only one !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henrysmithsgloves Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 1 minute ago, JudyJudyJudy said: No another one !!! There can be only one !! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 2 minutes ago, henrysmithsgloves said: Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henrysmithsgloves Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 🤣🤣🤣 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 5 minutes ago, henrysmithsgloves said: 🤣🤣🤣 Night Henry . 👍👍 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Doctor FinnBarr Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 Shag the workmate and don't tell the Mrs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
henrysmithsgloves Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 3 minutes ago, JudyJudyJudy said: Night Henry . 👍👍 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hughesie27 Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 (edited) Spoiler Edited February 25 by hughesie27 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jim_Duncan Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 Threesome. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
That thing you do Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 3 hours ago, Cruyff said: Picture this... You're happy in an a relationship but have serious chemistry with a very attractive work colleague with a banging body. What do you do? Asking for a friend.... Been there....I chose my marriage over doing anything. Is it worth wrecking your life and family for a bit of fun? It shouldnt be. If it is, youre not as happy as you think you are and you should be honest with the wife if anything happens. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pap Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 Shag your wife and keep it a secret from your workmate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seaside Dave Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 (edited) Id let your partner read the topic and see how they feel after if they are hurt and want to leave then go with your work mate. If your partner is ok with it. Then ask your work mate how they feel about you having a partner. Suggest all sitting down for a chat as a threesome ? Chances are you'll finish quick and leave both disappointed but be a good story for the forum or the lads group chat Edited February 25 by Seaside Dave Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seaside Dave Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 Just now, Seaside Dave said: Id let your partner read the topic and see how they feel after if they are hurt and want to leave then go with your work mate. If your partner is ok with it. Then ask your work mate how they feel about you having a partner. Suggest all sitting down for a chat as a threesome ? Chances are you'll finish quick and leave both disappointed but be a good story for the forum or the lads group chat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tightrope Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 Soft introduction, eventually leading to a threesome. Yaaaaaaaas. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jim_Duncan Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 1 hour ago, Pap said: Shag your wife and keep it a secret from your workmate. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jim_Duncan Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 1 hour ago, Seaside Dave said: Id let your partner read the topic and see how they feel after if they are hurt and want to leave then go with your work mate. If your partner is ok with it. Then ask your work mate how they feel about you having a partner. Suggest all sitting down for a chat as a threesome ? Chances are you'll finish quick and leave both disappointed but be a good story for the forum or the lads group chat Don’t judge others by your own low standards, Dave Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seaside Dave Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 7 minutes ago, Jim_Duncan said: Don’t judge others by your own low standards, Dave 🤣🤣🤣🤣 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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John Findlay Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 11 hours ago, FWJ said: Grow up, ignore the infatuation / crush and concentrate on your relationship. The correct answer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Generic Username Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 "I asked Kickback and they said I should rattle her" is going to be quite the defence to make to your missus. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jim_Duncan Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 6 minutes ago, Generic Username said: "I asked Kickback and they said I should rattle her" is going to be quite the defence to make to your missus. If he can get the mods to confirm it then she has no right of appeal. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cruyff Posted February 25 Author Share Posted February 25 1 hour ago, Bauld said: class. Thanks mate . 11 hours ago, FWJ said: Grow up, ignore the infatuation / crush and concentrate on your relationship. It's difficult to avoid temptation though. I am doing my best. I love my missus but if I was the customize my own, this would be it. European, Size 8, C cup, brunette, brown eyes, very funny and it's literally on a plate. I absolutely want to smash the living daylights out of it to be honest. But I know I can't because it would ruin my life and everyone else's. Point is, this is one of life's scenarios, temptation. I know it's a poison apple. I've thought about quitting my job tbh. 10 hours ago, il Duce McTarkin said: @Cruyff, do you have a sizeable patio? I do. 10 hours ago, henrysmithsgloves said: Are you coming out @Cruyff🤣 I sometimes wish I was gay, then we could just bum each other and play FIFA. 🤷🏻 10 hours ago, JudyJudyJudy said: Oh dear someone’s been on the sauce tonight 😂😂…… if you were really happy in said relationship you wouldn’t even think of someone else . Sorry to be a Debbie Downer I’m a bit old fashioned about the commitment in a relationship unless it’s been agreed there’s an open relationship. **** off James, surely you've been in these situations as a younger man? Especially when you've been a lad in your younger days. I'm just past that stage and any opportunity that has presented itself in the past has always been taken. I'm going against the grain. 10 hours ago, Doctor FinnBarr said: Shag the workmate and don't tell the Mrs I think the workmate is looking for a relationship and would definitely create issues. 7 hours ago, That thing you do said: Been there....I chose my marriage over doing anything. Is it worth wrecking your life and family for a bit of fun? It shouldnt be. If it is, youre not as happy as you think you are and you should be honest with the wife if anything happens. Yeah, I think that's the right course of action looking at the consequences. It's hard though. Did you just pie the other woman off or did you quit your job? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Cruyff Posted February 25 Author Share Posted February 25 21 minutes ago, Generic Username said: "I asked Kickback and they said I should rattle her" is going to be quite the defence to make to your missus. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawnrazor Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 Get it pumped. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jim_Duncan Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 3 minutes ago, Cruyff said: I love my missus but if I was the customize my own, this would be it. European, Size 8, C cup, brunette, brown eyes, very funny and it's literally on a plate. If you pump her at her place it counts double. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
FWJ Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 (edited) But I know I can't because it would ruin my life and everyone else's. There you go. And ‘creating issues’ rings a few alarm bells too. Bunny in the stock-pot? Edited February 25 by FWJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Vansen Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 Fecks sake! Tell your work crush that you would absolutely love to, but you love your wife too much to do anything. Honour saved, your work crush thinks, what an amazing guy, we mostly all think you're an idiot, but....disaster averted! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Der Kaiser Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndyNic Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 Tell the Mrs you need some time apart and go 'on a break'. Smash the work colleagues back doors in then tell the Mrs you've made a terrible mistake and dont want to be on a break. But never disclose the smashing of the back doors. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawnrazor Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 Just now, AndyNic said: Tell the Mrs you need some time apart and go 'on a break'. Smash the work colleagues back doors in then tell the Mrs you've made a terrible mistake and dont want to be on a break. But never disclose the smashing of the back doors. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AndyNic Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 When you're old and grey you'll regret no pumping her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
been here before Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 12 hours ago, Cruyff said: Picture this... You're happy in an a relationship but have serious chemistry with a very attractive work colleague with a banging body. What do you do? Asking for a friend.... Be honest with your Mrs and tell her about this boy at work you've got feelings for and you're just curious to see if it hurts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawnrazor Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 Just now, been here before said: Be honest with your Mrs and tell her about this boy at work you've got feelings for and you're just curious to see if it hurts. 😅 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neilnunb Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 5 minutes ago, been here before said: Be honest with your Mrs and tell her about this boy at work you've got feelings for and you're just curious to see if it hurts. 🤣 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bull's-eye Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 Introduce them. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 (edited) 1 hour ago, Cruyff said: class. Thanks mate . It's difficult to avoid temptation though. I am doing my best. I love my missus but if I was the customize my own, this would be it. European, Size 8, C cup, brunette, brown eyes, very funny and it's literally on a plate. I absolutely want to smash the living daylights out of it to be honest. But I know I can't because it would ruin my life and everyone else's. Point is, this is one of life's scenarios, temptation. I know it's a poison apple. I've thought about quitting my job tbh. I do. I sometimes wish I was gay, then we could just bum each other and play FIFA. 🤷🏻 **** off James, surely you've been in these situations as a younger man? Especially when you've been a lad in your younger days. I'm just past that stage and any opportunity that has presented itself in the past has always been taken. I'm going against the grain. I think the workmate is looking for a relationship and would definitely create issues. Yeah, I think that's the right course of action looking at the consequences. It's hard though. Did you just pie the other woman off or did you quit your job? “ in my younger days ?” !!! How very. Dare you ! I still get the offers ! 😂😂 actually I did have a similar dilemma years ago when I was with an ex. We got introduced to a guy who I immediately felt attracted to and had an Irish accent to boot . ( Eire ) . Anyway the partner left the pub early ( he was rather boring really ) and I was left with the guy . He told me he fancied me and we ended up kissing , but I said I couldn’t do anything for else due to my views about commitment . Fast forward 6 months and the partner dumped me and I thought deck it I. Should have went all the way or a knee trembler with the Irish guy 😂😂😂. so ….or not !! It’s your choice Edited February 25 by JudyJudyJudy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tazio Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 The old classic leave your partner and the new person always has a seed of doubt in their head about you as they know you’re a person who will cheat on someone. The seed grows and the relationship falls apart. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Pap Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 2 hours ago, Cruyff said: What country is she from? Bet shes a Polish dirty. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 The grass is always greener on the other side Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Des Lynam Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 48 minutes ago, JudyJudyJudy said: “ in my younger days ?” !!! How very. Dare you ! I still get the offers ! 😂😂 actually I did have a similar dilemma years ago when I was with an ex. We got introduced to a guy who I immediately felt attracted to and had an Irish accent to boot . ( Eire ) . Anyway the partner left the pub early ( he was rather boring really ) and I was left with the guy . He told me he fancied me and we ended up kissing , but I said I couldn’t do anything for else due to my views about commitment . Fast forward 6 months and the partner dumped me and I thought deck it I. Should have went all the way or a knee trembler with the Irish guy 😂😂😂. so ….or not !! It’s your choice Sounds like your ex made the correct decision kicking you to the kerb. 15 minutes ago, Tazio said: The old classic leave your partner and the new person always has a seed of doubt in their head about you as they know you’re a person who will cheat on someone. The seed grows and the relationship falls apart. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 (edited) 1 minute ago, Des Lynam said: Sounds like your ex made the correct decision kicking you to the kerb. Oh I got over it very quickly dear …. It wasn’t working out so I’m glad he had the balls to call it a day. Edited February 25 by JudyJudyJudy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
been here before Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 17 minutes ago, Des Lynam said: Sounds like your ex made the correct decision kicking you to the kerb. As ever, no matter the subject matter, James, 'an ex' or 'a friend' has done it, bettered it or experienced it worse than anyone else. Its the same on the sore feet thread. He's been there and suffered it too. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Herbert. Posted February 25 Share Posted February 25 13 hours ago, Doctor FinnBarr said: Shag the workmate and don't tell the Mrs This. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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