rudi must stay Posted December 29, 2022 Share Posted December 29, 2022 I think that is important for him to hear Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lone Striker Posted December 29, 2022 Share Posted December 29, 2022 7 minutes ago, rudi must stay said: I believe I was at the hands of doctors that wished to make me worse so that I could be useful to somebody else Eh ? That makes zero sense, Rudi. Sorry, but you sound delusional - and fixated on highly unlikely reasons for how you ended up in your current state. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 29, 2022 Share Posted December 29, 2022 15 minutes ago, Lone Striker said: Eh ? That makes zero sense, Rudi. Sorry, but you sound delusional - and fixated on highly unlikely reasons for how you ended up in your current state. They are unlikely doctors are very gunho these days (cancer and operations) they could well have made me this way deliberately Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lone Striker Posted December 29, 2022 Share Posted December 29, 2022 1 minute ago, rudi must stay said: They are unlikely doctors are very gunho these days (cancer and operations) they could well have made me this way deliberately Be honest - do you ACTUALLY believe that ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morgan Posted December 29, 2022 Share Posted December 29, 2022 18 minutes ago, rudi must stay said: I believe I was at the hands of doctors that wished to make me worse so that I could be useful to somebody else 1 minute ago, rudi must stay said: They are unlikely doctors are very gunho these days (cancer and operations) they could well have made me this way deliberately These posts are quite ludicrous. I feel that a football forum is not now the place for these types of accusations. I’m sorry, Rudi, but this has gone too far, in my opinion. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 29, 2022 Share Posted December 29, 2022 13 minutes ago, Morgan said: These posts are quite ludicrous. I feel that a football forum is not now the place for these types of accusations. I’m sorry, Rudi, but this has gone too far, in my opinion. That's okay Morgan but it's good to get it off my chest Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 29, 2022 Share Posted December 29, 2022 Let me tell you it is hard living when nobody cares about you even the NHS Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shooter McGavin Posted December 29, 2022 Share Posted December 29, 2022 37 minutes ago, rudi must stay said: Let me tell you it is hard living when nobody cares about you even the NHS Plenty of people do care about you mate, that’s why they’re taking time out of their day to chat to you, and offer their help and advice. But you seem stuck in this loop of feeling sorry for yourself, pointing the finger and blaming others. You need to try your best to break out of that loop, and I’m not for one second suggesting it’s as easy as that. But I feel you need to try and focus on what you can do and can achieve. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 29, 2022 Share Posted December 29, 2022 12 minutes ago, Shooter McGavin said: Plenty of people do care about you mate, that’s why they’re taking time out of their day to chat to you, and offer their help and advice. But you seem stuck in this loop of feeling sorry for yourself, pointing the finger and blaming others. You need to try your best to break out of that loop, and I’m not for one second suggesting it’s as easy as that. But I feel you need to try and focus on what you can do and can achieve. I feel sick 24 hours a day Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shooter McGavin Posted December 29, 2022 Share Posted December 29, 2022 2 minutes ago, rudi must stay said: I feel sick 24 hours a day How is that possible? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 29, 2022 Share Posted December 29, 2022 18 minutes ago, Shooter McGavin said: How is that possible? It's possible because of x-rays and tests they've done radiation poisoning. You not seen Elysium Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shooter McGavin Posted December 29, 2022 Share Posted December 29, 2022 20 minutes ago, rudi must stay said: It's possible because of x-rays and tests they've done radiation poisoning. You not seen Elysium I seriously doubt that you’ve got radiation poisoning from 3 x-rays. No, that’s a science fiction film mate. That’s not reality. I’m worried these conclusions you’re jumping to are completely distorting the reality, and it’s stopping you from making real, positive steps to getting better. You need to seek proper diagnosis from a qualified professional, and not play fast and loose with things you read online. I mean, I can google the symptoms of a common cold, and I’d probably end up down a rabbit hole where I’m told I’ve got all the exotic and rare diseases known to man. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 29, 2022 Share Posted December 29, 2022 My body isn't lying to me. I can feel every bone on my body it's horrible very unpleasant to be quite honest it's like being dead Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lone Striker Posted December 29, 2022 Share Posted December 29, 2022 2 hours ago, rudi must stay said: It's possible because of x-rays and tests they've done radiation poisoning. You not seen Elysium So a sci-fi film set in a nightmare future has convinced you that events in the script are actually real right now ? A wee question - which of these age-groups do you fall into - Under 20 21-50 Over 50 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hisnameisdrewbusby Posted December 29, 2022 Share Posted December 29, 2022 6 hours ago, Psychedelicropcircle said: I’ve a pal who has had a woo-full year, lost his lad in a road accident in the summer. He’s been to see the doc etc. my question is is there anything I can do? Gutted he’s stuck having dark days! tried to get him to talk to me but he wasn’t interested maybe with it being this time of year! That's a dreadful feeling for a parent - I've not got first hand experience, but have had a guy at Changing Room who lost a child. If you pal won't talk to you about how he's feeling, then try telling him (you my already) that you are concerned about him and will be happy to listen to him at any time. It's not the same thing at all, but leaflet via this link After_A_Suicide_2021.pdf (samh.org.uk) is for people dealing with loss by suicide - as I say, I know it's not the right one, but is has some ideas (pages 25, 26, 27) and details for services like: Cruse Bereavement Care Scotland offers free bereavement care and support through one-to-one counselling or local support groups. To find out about the availability of services in your area, contact the National Office: 0808 802 616 [email protected] www.crusescotland.org.uk By post: Cruse Bereavement Care Scotland, CBCS Headquarters, 29 Barossa Place, Perth, PH1 5HH Cruse are not suicide focussed so may be a good idea, or get him to ask his GP about Distress Brief Intervention (from memory it was piloted for NHS staff dealing with COVID durings lockdowns, but later rolled out more widely to help folk in distress. Keep on at him please - he'll appreciate it even though it might not seem like that now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morgan Posted December 29, 2022 Share Posted December 29, 2022 1 hour ago, Lone Striker said: So a sci-fi film set in a nightmare future has convinced you that events in the script are actually real right now ? A wee question - which of these age-groups do you fall into - Under 20 21-50 Over 50 Rudi has said before that he is early 30’s. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 4 hours ago, Morgan said: Rudi has said before that he is early 30’s. 33 now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 Had a big falling out with my brother this time I'm not sure I want to see him again. Took screenshots of all my twitter posts sent them to Mum said they should take the phone off me. Anyway I mentioned him saying I could have the big c in the middle of a bar first time I told my parents. He's denying it ofcourse Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 57 minutes ago, rudi must stay said: Had a big falling out with my brother this time I'm not sure I want to see him again. Took screenshots of all my twitter posts sent them to Mum said they should take the phone off me. Anyway I mentioned him saying I could have the big c in the middle of a bar first time I told my parents. He's denying it ofcourse Well first of all your 33 and a grown adult so your parents can’t take your phone off you pal . Your allowed to post whatever you like in twitter , within its rules . Have you spoke to medical people about “ health anxiety.” At all ? It looked at family therapy as there seems to family issues , in particular with you and your brother ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 11 minutes ago, JudyJudyJudy said: Well first of all your 33 and a grown adult so your parents can’t take your phone off you pal . Your allowed to post whatever you like in twitter , within its rules . Have you spoke to medical people about “ health anxiety.” At all ? It looked at family therapy as there seems to family issues , in particular with you and your brother ? I had a therapist and used to talk to him about my brother. I am sick of talking, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 Maybe a good time to say I want the £12,000 he owes me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Des Lynam Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 1 hour ago, rudi must stay said: Had a big falling out with my brother this time I'm not sure I want to see him again. Took screenshots of all my twitter posts sent them to Mum said they should take the phone off me. Anyway I mentioned him saying I could have the big c in the middle of a bar first time I told my parents. He's denying it ofcourse You need to seek proper psychiatric help Rudi. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 13 minutes ago, Des Lynam said: You need to seek proper psychiatric help Rudi. I just need to get away mate go back to my flat watch films Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Des Lynam Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 8 minutes ago, rudi must stay said: I just need to get away mate go back to my flat watch films I think that would be a good idea. A break would be good for yourself and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 11 minutes ago, Des Lynam said: I think that would be a good idea. A break would be good for yourself and your family. Me too Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 57 minutes ago, rudi must stay said: I just need to get away mate go back to my flat watch films Might be good idea , however can also be negative if you hide away and isolate yourself too . A compromise is maybe needed ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 12 minutes ago, JudyJudyJudy said: Might be good idea , however can also be negative if you hide away and isolate yourself too . A compromise is maybe needed ? This family doesn't love me anymore Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 2 minutes ago, rudi must stay said: This family doesn't love me anymore How do you know that ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 12 minutes ago, JudyJudyJudy said: How do you know that ? I know this because of the way they treat me. The way they never make any sacrifices for me, it is like I'm in the dog house every day Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 My brother's boyfriend has come round just to get me in more trouble. The two of them are horrid Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 9 minutes ago, rudi must stay said: I know this because of the way they treat me. The way they never make any sacrifices for me, it is like I'm in the dog house every day Just now, rudi must stay said: My brother's boyfriend has come round just to get me in more trouble. The two of them are horrid Well on second thoughts maybe a break from them might be good ,? What “ trouble “ exactly is the boyfriend causing ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 28 minutes ago, JudyJudyJudy said: Well on second thoughts maybe a break from them might be good ,? What “ trouble “ exactly is the boyfriend causing ? He'll be showing Mum more photos turning their kid against me Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 8 minutes ago, rudi must stay said: He'll be showing Mum more photos turning their kid against me What do you mean ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 10 minutes ago, JudyJudyJudy said: What do you mean ? He's been taking screenshots. It's good he doesn't know about this place eh Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 11 minutes ago, rudi must stay said: He's been taking screenshots. It's good he doesn't know about this place eh Oh u mean twitter ? Your allowed your views as Long as they don’t breach twitter rules . This seems to be a good safe space for you I feel . 👍 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 30, 2022 Share Posted December 30, 2022 11 minutes ago, JudyJudyJudy said: Oh u mean twitter ? Your allowed your views as Long as they don’t breach twitter rules . This seems to be a good safe space for you I feel . 👍 Yes it is all Jambos here I am a real believer in Jambos Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 Mum says if I feel bad she could take me to the doctors. That's another year feeling like crap, no plans tonight. A young man crippled and vulnerable, maybe I should go and let off steam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 On 30/12/2022 at 14:01, rudi must stay said: Yes it is all Jambos here I am a real believer in Jambos I had one of my tweets read out aloud on " celebrity big brother " one time Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 29 minutes ago, rudi must stay said: maybe I should go and let off steam Maybe you should. ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 10 minutes ago, JudyJudyJudy said: I had one of my tweets read out aloud on " celebrity big brother " one time I was in the first series Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 Just now, rudi must stay said: I was in the first series The celebrity one ? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 10 minutes ago, JudyJudyJudy said: Maybe you should. ? Now I have reconnected with people I have realised I matter and my treatment was very poor Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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rudi must stay Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 Time for me to rebuild my life Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Robbo-Jambo Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 59 minutes ago, rudi must stay said: I was in the first series 🤔🤔 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Салатные палочки Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 This is getting more and more ludicrous by the day. @rudi must stay you really need to take the advice of the good people of JKB and seek some help from professionals. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 26 minutes ago, Salad Fingers said: This is getting more and more ludicrous by the day. @rudi must stay you really need to take the advice of the good people of JKB and seek some help from professionals. Mate I just need to watch films enjoy my life. As the psychiatrist said my body is screwing with me it's one of the symptoms of schizophrenia Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rudi must stay Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 It is important for me to realise I think I wouldn't know what normal is. I am sorry for all my stuff I've been saying it's a personal issue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 3 minutes ago, rudi must stay said: It is important for me to realise I think I wouldn't know what normal is. I am sorry for all my stuff I've been saying it's a personal issue Everyone wants to support you . Don’t be sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Салатные палочки Posted December 31, 2022 Share Posted December 31, 2022 Don't ever feel the need to apologise, but some of the things you're saying are genuinely unsettling and perhaps just biting the bullet and putting your trust in a professional may really benefit you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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