neave Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Is there anything worse than the numb, empty, gut-wrenching feeling of hearing about your ex-burd seeing someone else? I feel like I've been hit in the balls with a 9-iron. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K1874M Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Is there anything worse than the numb, empty, gut-wrenching feeling of hearing about your ex-burd seeing someone else? I feel like I've been hit in the balls with a 9-iron. Specially when you know she'll be getting it aw roads.... soul destroying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gavsy Van Gaverson Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 You'll forget all about her next time you're baw deep. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miller Jambo 60 Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Is there anything worse than the numb, empty, gut-wrenching feeling of hearing about your ex-burd seeing someone else? I feel like I've been hit in the balls with a 9-iron. Sorry to hear that mate, some advice get someone else if you havent already. And get on the Golf course. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neave Posted April 18, 2008 Author Share Posted April 18, 2008 You'll forget all about her next time you're baw deep. You free tonight? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Say What Again Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Specially when you know she'll be getting it aw roads.... soul destroying. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gavsy Van Gaverson Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 You free tonight? I'm washing my hair. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Say What Again Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 I'm washing my hair. Liar, you're going out with neave's ex tonight Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neave Posted April 18, 2008 Author Share Posted April 18, 2008 Liar, you're going out with neave's ex tonight The boy she's seeing looks like a complete tit as well. I don't know why, but it makes it slightly worse that he seems a good few years older than she is. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Say What Again Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Had you been seeing her for a while? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
troonjambo Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Is there anything worse than the numb, empty, gut-wrenching feeling of hearing about your ex-burd seeing someone else? I feel like I've been hit in the balls with a 9-iron. aye hearing its your so called mate :sad: one off the only pleasures in getting older is **** like this dont happen to you as much anyway you chill mate ;) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neave Posted April 18, 2008 Author Share Posted April 18, 2008 Had you been seeing her for a while? 3 years. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K1874M Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 aye hearing its your so called mate :sad: one off the only pleasures in getting older is **** like this dont happen to you as much anyway you chill mate ;) As the older you get the less holes you play (cheers doug), thus meaning you wont sit at night thinking about the pounding your ex is taking. Nah been there mate... found drink and unexplored fan-eh to be the best cure. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dean Winchester Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 The boy she's seeing looks like a complete tit as well. Take it in your stride that shes lowered her standards then just go out and find someone high on your standards Also delete your number from your phone... Abusive texts/phonecalls after a good sat night out rarely help Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Therapist Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Is there anything worse than the numb, empty, gut-wrenching feeling of hearing about your ex-burd seeing someone else? I feel like I've been hit in the balls with a 9-iron. I've never had that feeling. I've always been the dumper rather than the dumpee so I don't give a toss what they get up to once I've finished with them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neave Posted April 18, 2008 Author Share Posted April 18, 2008 Specially when you know she'll be getting it aw roads you wont sit at night thinking about the pounding your ex is taking. . Cheers Kenny, you've been a big help. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Say What Again Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 3 years. There's no point in giving the 'plenty more fish in the sea speech' you'll have heard (and probably didn't want to hear) it. It's going to hurt for a while but it won't hurt for long. It's amazing how many different things can help you forget (and no I don't mean alcohol - but that would be my choice). Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neave Posted April 18, 2008 Author Share Posted April 18, 2008 Take it in your stride that shes lowered her standards then just go out and find someone high on your standards Also delete your number from your phone... Abusive texts/phonecalls after a good sat night out rarely help Very true, Gavin. Well ahead of you though. P.S. Don't you wish we could all be as perfect as Therapist? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Say What Again Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 I've never had that feeling. I've always been the dumper rather than the dumpee so I don't give a toss what they get up to once I've finished with them. and they finally get the all clear to go home from the clinic Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K1874M Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Cheers Kenny, you've been a big help. hehe sorry.. As I said, got to get back in the saddle as quick as you can.. Woman love a man on the rebound. Surely you've kept a list of all the birds that have tried it on with you over the last 3 yrs. I'm adding to mine weekly.... knowing that if the shecht hits the fan there's a golf course waiting to be played. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neave Posted April 18, 2008 Author Share Posted April 18, 2008 There's no point in giving the 'plenty more fish in the sea speech' you'll have heard (and probably didn't want to hear) it. It's going to hurt for a while but it won't hurt for long. It's amazing how many different things can help you forget (and no I don't mean alcohol!). Aye, it happened a good few months ago and, up until last week, I've been fine about it. Had a bit of a **** one recently and finding that out sort of blindsided me a wee bit; kind of a big cherry on top of what's been a mince week. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K1874M Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Take it in your stride that shes lowered her standards then just go out and find someone high on your standards Also delete your number from your phone... Abusive texts/phonecalls after a good sat night out rarely help He feels bad enuff, why would he send him self abusive texts? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dean Winchester Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Very true, Gavin. Well ahead of you though. P.S. Don't you wish we could all be as perfect as Therapist? Ahh he knows my name He feels bad enuff, why would he send him self abusive texts? I have no idea what you mean... I quite clearly said dont send her abusive texts Your just misreading it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Say What Again Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 He feels bad enuff, why would he send him self abusive texts? You're on fire today Kenny Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K1874M Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Ahh he knows my name I have no idea what you mean... I quite clearly said dont send her abusive texts You told him to delete his own number not hers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dean Winchester Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 You told him to delete his own number not hers. No, really, I said her number. Honestly do you need glasses? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K1874M Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 No, really, I said her number. Honestly do you need glasses? hehe.... you trying to confuse me! Its working now I'm sitting at work in fear that I'm suffering a flash back from a late 90's binge!!!!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondejamtart Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Awww....I'm quite touched to find there are so many sympathetic, caring males on Kickback! Quelle surprise! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K1874M Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Awww....I'm quite touched to find there are so many sympathetic, caring males on Kickback! Quelle surprise! We wouldnt have to be so sympathetic if it wasnt for woman puting it about. tssssk. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dean Winchester Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 hehe.... you trying to confuse me! Its working now I'm sitting at work in fear that I'm suffering a flash back from a late 90's binge!!!!! 90's? What have you been taking man? This is the 80's! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondejamtart Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 We wouldnt have to be so sympathetic if it wasnt for woman puting it about. tssssk. Pffft....don't look at me - I'm not responsible for what fellow members of my sex get up to! Are you telling me you lot don't "put it about" too...???? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Therapist Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Are you telling me you lot don't "put it about" too...???? Neave would like to. That's why he's shaking with rage. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dean Winchester Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Pffft....don't look at me - I'm not responsible for what fellow members of my sex get up to! Are you telling me you lot don't "put it about" too...???? I cant believe you would even accuse us of such a thing! How dare you! I am completely outraged by this comment And to answer your question... Only at the weekends Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondejamtart Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Neave would like to. That's why he's shaking with rage. Hehehe... Anyway......Auntie Blondie will be opening her very own answer to the Dear Deirdre or Just Joan advice columns shortly, so all you lot can feel free to open your hearts and pour out your troubles. (Then the rest of us can have a bloomin' good laugh!) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dean Winchester Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Anyway......Auntie Blondie will be opening her very own answer to the Dear Deirdre or Just Joan advice columns shortly, so all you lot can feel free to open your hearts and pour out your troubles. (Then the rest of us can have a bloomin' good laugh!) Awww....I'm quite touched to find there are so many sympathetic, caring females on Kickback! Quelle surprise! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest GhostHunter Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 If it helps - it doesnt get any easier as you get older Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondejamtart Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Awww....I'm quite touched to find there are so many sympathetic, caring females on Kickback! Quelle surprise! Hey, I'm always here with a shoulder to cry on..... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Miller Jambo 60 Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Pffft....don't look at me - I'm not responsible for what fellow members of my sex get up to! Are you telling me you lot don't "put it about" too...???? Fell for that one, been tempted myself but the fact i would be murdered by my wife keeps me on track. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Romanov Saviour of HMFC Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Chin up Neave, thought I read you had a polish burd to occupy you now?! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chester copperpot Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Hehehe... Anyway......Auntie Blondie will be opening her very own Stopped reading at this point. Got my hopes up a bit there Blondie. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondejamtart Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Stopped reading at this point. Got my hopes up a bit there Blondie. LOL...I do try! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chester copperpot Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 LOL...I do try! Sorry but I genuinely did get my hopes up that Blondie has ditched her goody two shoes image. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neave Posted April 18, 2008 Author Share Posted April 18, 2008 Chin up Neave, thought I read you had a polish burd to occupy you now?! I do, but she's all the way in Poland. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondejamtart Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Goody two shoes? Where did you get that idea from? Anyway, lest I be accused of hijacking this thread, to poor Neave, Auntie Blondie would give this advice, from the heart: however hard it may seem, if a relationship is meant to be, then it will be. If not, then you have to move on. She's not worth it - the right person for you is out there. It may be painful to see her with someone else, but remember "this too will pass". Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alwaysthereinspirit Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Is there anything worse than the numb, empty, gut-wrenching feeling of hearing about your ex-burd seeing someone else? I feel like I've been hit in the balls with a 9-iron. Usually they turn into right little goers as well. Doing all the stuff she wouldn't do with you. Look on the bright side. You've made her new boyfriend a happy lucky bar steward. That has to make you feel good. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Romanov Saviour of HMFC Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 I do, but she's all the way in Poland. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
neave Posted April 18, 2008 Author Share Posted April 18, 2008 Way ahead of you, mate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blondejamtart Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Perverts!! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hughesie27 Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 So whats her new partners name? Stacey? Lisa? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mr Romanov Saviour of HMFC Posted April 18, 2008 Share Posted April 18, 2008 Way ahead of you, mate. Good lad! Seriously though, all you can do is move on. Go out with the lads, get buckled and have the time of your life without checking with some daft bint if you are allowed down the pub! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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