Boozyuzi Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 What's going on ? Back in the day you could go for a couple of beers and a firm hand shake or a simple "cheerio" was enough before you were on your way. However, nowadays it appears that every time I leave the pub/corner shop/phone box I have to spend at least 15 minutes man hugging my mates as if they are just about to emigrate to Australia or the Antarctic. And that's just the guys.. sometimes when me & my wife are out with other couples the long goodbye can take about an hour by the time everyone has kissed each other twice on the cheek and confirmed that the night was a "great night" despite it being almost exactly the same as every other night at the local boozer. Honestly, it does ma head in..nae wonder folk drink in the house.. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dawnrazor Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Load of pish, a good firm handshake covers every eventuality, funerals, weddings, emigration, child birth, first ride, all this hugging is just nonsense, I blame the Europeans. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marvin Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 I don't object but keep the man hugging for friends whom you don't see very often. As mentioned above a good handshake is enough. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Riddley Walker Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 An issue with British culture is that we have no pre-defined greeting or goodbye. If you're French you know exactly what's going to happen when you meet or greet someone, the wee 2 kiss on the cheek. It would help if we all just agreed to do one thing and would save awkward moments for all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
been here before Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 What's going on ? Back in the day you could go for a couple of beers and a firm hand shake or a simple "cheerio" was enough before you were on your way. However, nowadays it appears that every time I leave the pub/corner shop/phone box I have to spend at least 15 minutes man hugging my mates as if they are just about to emigrate to Australia or the Antarctic. Honestly, it does ma head in..nae wonder folk drink in the house.. So dont do it then. Its really not that diffucult. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southcap Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Man hugs should last long enough to see what pops up Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dusk_Till_Dawn Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Nowt wrong with a big hug. Sometimes use tongues and all. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bauld Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
southcap Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Nowt wrong with a big hug. Sometimes use tongues and all. Would be rude not to throw in a wee reach around too. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
michael_bolton Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 As mentioned above, for those you rarely see it's fine. But when people try all that mince when you see them on a regular basis it's just daft. I know a lot of people who try to do it and I've only known them a few months. Just stand back and avoid it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LeylandJambo Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Back in my day it was "I'm goan hame I'll see ya the morra" and off you go. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Der Kaiser Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Sounds like someone wants a hug...... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Hansel Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Maybe you should just embrace the change bud Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Paolo Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 What's going on ? Back in the day you could go for a couple of beers and a firm hand shake or a simple "cheerio" was enough before you were on your way. However, nowadays it appears that every time I leave the pub/corner shop/phone box I have to spend at least 15 minutes man hugging my mates as if they are just about to emigrate to Australia or the Antarctic. And that's just the guys.. sometimes when me & my wife are out with other couples the long goodbye can take about an hour by the time everyone has kissed each other twice on the cheek and confirmed that the night was a "great night" despite it being almost exactly the same as every other night at the local boozer. Honestly, it does ma head in..nae wonder folk drink in the house.. I agree, but what are you doing in a phone box with another man? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
i8hibsh Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 I don't shake hands due to my seriously bad OCD. I do a fist pump, tap on the back or a man hug. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morgan Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 If you don't fancy kissing men on each cheek when you meet or leave them, don't move to feckin France. Even worse when the feckers are sweaty or have been smoking. Or have a beard. Whole different ball game when you meet and greet some women though! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Dusk_Till_Dawn Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 I don't shake hands due to my seriously bad OCD. I do a fist pump, tap on the back or a man hug. OCD strikes me as the sort of thing you'd target in an epic rant denying its existing. Get well soon tho man. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debut 4 Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Aye, it seems all a bit fake at times. Too American. Mates who just seen each other recently welcoming each other as if they haven't been together for a few years. Think I'd get a slap if I tried to hug a mate ..I just keep them for when the JTs rip the net in big matches Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morgan Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Aye, it seems all a bit fake at times. Too American. Mates who just seen each other recently welcoming each other as if they haven't been together for a few years. Think I'd get a slap if I tried to hug a mate ..I just keep them for when the JTs rip the net in big matches Americans? Fake? Never. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scott herbertson Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Man hugs are reserved for cup final goals Nothing else Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marvin Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Whole different ball game when you meet and greet some women though! Are tongues allowed? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morgan Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Are tongues allowed? No. That's why when you slip one in it makes it all the better. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Marvin Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 No. That's why when you slip one in it makes it all the better. Tried it before eh? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Morgan Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Tried it before eh? Wouldn't you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
AlimOzturk Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 If I haven't seen someone for years a fist clamp and tap of the shoulders is enough. Family members is different. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Grumpy Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 Back in my day it was "I'm goan hame I'll see ya the morra" and off you go. I'm still living in that time zone Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maple Leaf Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 I don't do man hugs, but I hug his wife twice to keep things balanced. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bridge of Djoum Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 A simple nod, perhaps a slight raising of your chosen eyebrow is plenty. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
graygo Posted July 11, 2017 Share Posted July 11, 2017 I'm all for it, was sceptical at first but got used to it. Helps if you think that something terrible is going to happen to them and it might be the last time you see them. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Neilson's Shank Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 Firm dry handshake or as my son who works in England and we do not see too often uses awrite bawbag Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Seymour M Hersh Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 If you don't fancy kissing men on each cheek when you meet or leave them, don't move to feckin France. Even worse when the feckers are sweaty or have been smoking. Or have a beard. Whole different ball game when you meet and greet some women though! I've no doubt your balls see it as a different game! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
scott herbertson Posted July 12, 2017 Share Posted July 12, 2017 I'm all for it, was sceptical at first but got used to it. Helps if you think that something terrible is going to happen to them and it might be the last time you see them. Quite depressing if every time you meet a mate you imagine some gory death for them! Do you also ask what music they'd like played at the funeral! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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