I feel terrible for them. Sure, they made a terrible mistake, which was neglectful by the way, but insinuations of anything more are just absurd.   Also, who is everybody else to judge so quickly? There's not one perfect parent among us. I would wager every penny I have that there are scores of folk on this forum who drive too fast with their kids in the car, who text and change the music on the iPod. Judging by some of the nightly posts there are clearly people who are sitting at home far