I know I'll be hanged, drawn and quartered for this, but reflex worship of soldiers, especially dead soldiers, irritates me more than most people. First, yes I've been to France and Belgium, yes I've been to the daily Ypres ceremony, yes I've been to Thiepval. Second, no, I would not want to fight in a war.   But I wish people had a more nuanced view of things. Firstly, many of those who fought in the First World War did so very gladly, maybe because it was a chance to get out of the pit or