tweegy Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Can't seem to do it. She has been lovely to me during a crisis time of my life and I know when it comes its going to be messy! Any other horror stories out there and I'm not including running out of a pub in canary Wharf. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Templeton Peck Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Whats her bad points? focus on them Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tweegy Posted February 13, 2016 Author Share Posted February 13, 2016 Cheers Barack, not going to be hasty! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WSTR Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 I remember the last time a poster had a late nite bursds thread a few months ago. That went well... Hope you get it sorted out though ok tweegy. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WSTR Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 If I were you I'd give it a few weeks. See how you feel then. I was going to break up with mine a few years ago and I'm so glad I didn't. I'm happier now than ever. Just remember there's nothing that can't be fixed, unless she's shagged your dead rabbit or something. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tweegy Posted February 13, 2016 Author Share Posted February 13, 2016 Whats her bad points? focus on them Tbh she's lovely apart from being clumsy as ****! But just not for me. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WSTR Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Or had cereal with milk. Filthy bitch. If that's the case then she's a keeper. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tweegy Posted February 13, 2016 Author Share Posted February 13, 2016 Or had cereal with milk. Filthy bitch. If she had cereal without milk I'd know right away she was a wrong Un. She may be from a Celtic family but nothing as bad as having dry cereal. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maggieb Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Tbh she's lovely apart from being clumsy as ****! But just not for me. How long together ? If not long , she'll understand however you put it , long time is a different story,be brave dude,when you feel like this ,explain, she's probably got an inkling , life's way too short, good luck x Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Say What Again Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Can't seem to do it. She has been lovely to me during a crisis time of my life and I know when it comes its going to be messy! . Took me at least 2 years longer than it should have to split with a bird of 9 years. She'd been amazing through my illnesses and operations. I couldn't have wished for more care/attention/love - but we just didn't fit. She thought we were just different. Problem was I knew we were. Despite friends and sister telling me to end it, I plodded along. In the end it wasn't nice, but I wasted two years of my life and hers. We actually get on better now, 4 years later. Sometimes when she's bevvied she text me wanting me to pump her. More than the cow ever did in my 9 stretch. Sadly, one day I'll be awake whe she texts at 3am and I'll oblige. Bet I even get a gam. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tweegy Posted February 13, 2016 Author Share Posted February 13, 2016 How long together ? If not long , she'll understand however you put it , long time is a different story,be brave dude,when you feel like this ,explain, she's probably got an inkling , life's way too short, good luck x Not long, bit over a year Maggie Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
maggieb Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 If she had cereal without milk I'd know right away she was a wrong Un. She may be from a Celtic family but nothing as bad as having dry cereal. Ps phukkers that eat dry weetabix are from a very sad place, normally eat cabbage raw and think meat is best served minced with a raw egg on top which imo is not worth a coulis, again good luck and think o yerself n family Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tweegy Posted February 13, 2016 Author Share Posted February 13, 2016 Took me at least 2 years longer than it should have to split with a bird of 9 years. She'd been amazing through my illnesses and operations. I couldn't have wished for more care/attention/love - but we just didn't fit. She thought we were just different. Problem was I knew we were. Despite friends and sister telling me to end it, I plodded along. In the end it wasn't nice, but I wasted two years of my life and hers. We actually get on better now, 4 years later. Sometimes when she's bevvied she text me wanting me to pump her. More than the cow ever did in my 9 stretch. Sadly, one day I'll be awake whe she texts at 3am and I'll oblige. Bet I even get a gam. No where as long but can certainly relate to the care and attention bit. I'm prob like you not wanting to hurt her. Inevitable though. She's never been with a Jambo before. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tweegy Posted February 13, 2016 Author Share Posted February 13, 2016 Ps phukkers that eat dry weetabix are from a very sad place, normally eat cabbage raw and think meat is best served minced with a raw egg on top which imo is not worth a coulis, again good luck and think o yerself n family Thankfully I'm a non father with no dependents to worry about Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Say What Again Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 No where as long but can certainly relate to the care and attention bit. I'm prob like you not wanting to hurt her. Inevitable though. She's never been with a Jambo before. Joking aside from my post mate, I'd say do it. It took me years to build up to it and it was horrible. Tears on both sides. No fun for either party. In the long run its the best thing for both of you. We're no long on this earth. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tweegy Posted February 13, 2016 Author Share Posted February 13, 2016 Joking aside from my post mate, I'd say do it. It took me years to build up to it and it was horrible. Tears on both sides. No fun for either party. In the long run its the best thing for both of you. We're no long on this earth. Yeah I agree but I think I'm a typical man and take the path of least resistance! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tweegy Posted February 13, 2016 Author Share Posted February 13, 2016 Will try tomorrow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Say What Again Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Good luck Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tweegy Posted February 13, 2016 Author Share Posted February 13, 2016 Cheers swa Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Templeton Peck Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Tbh she's lovely apart from being clumsy as ****! But just not for me. Clumsy how?? Enough to get over it? Whats the problem? I bet you have bad points to her. That's a grown up relationship. Looking for another bird is shite and expensive Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tweegy Posted February 13, 2016 Author Share Posted February 13, 2016 Clumsy how?? Enough to get over it? Whats the problem? I bet you have bad points to her. That's a grown up relationship. Looking for another bird is shite and expensive I have way more bad points than her. That isn't in dispute. Any man would be lucky. But it just isn't working for me. And I wouldn't be looking for a new one. Would be happy for the peace and quiet! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unknown user Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Clumsy how?? Enough to get over it? Whats the problem? I bet you have bad points to her. That's a grown up relationship. Looking for another bird is shite and expensive Nah, if it's no right it's no right and that's all there is to it. There doesn't have to be anything wrong with anyone for it not to be right. **** settling, I'd rather be on my own than with someone who I didn't think was right for me. Like the guy above, I wasted a year of my life on a right cow out of loyalty, a sense of duty, and a fear of change. I was an idiot. Listen to the wee voice deep down inside, it knows best. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shanks Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Will try tomorrow. Day before Valentine's Day aye? Good luck mate. My thoughts and prayers go out to your friends and family at this time Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WSTR Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Day before Valentine's Day aye? Good luck mate. My thoughts and prayers go out to your friends and family at this time This is a good point. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hughesie27 Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 I split up with my ex of nearly 7 years 18 months or so ago. She is one of the nicest people you could meet but the last year or so we just became good mates than anything else. It was tough to admit it to each other but I had to say something a week before she was heading off to Spain for a few monyhs to work (something she had done before for Uni so we were prepared for it). It was harder on her than me as I found my current GF a couple of months later but we are still friends now and both happy with new people. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
deesidejambo Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 I still laugh at the KB'er who got dumped for bursting out laughing when his bird asked him if Cloverfield was based on a true event. Class. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Currahee! Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 I split with mine in 2013. We hated each other. I found a flat and just told her I'm away. That was that. We get on much better now. But she gives my new girlfriend abuse anytime she sees her. The immature cow. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Harry Potter Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Can't seem to do it. She has been lovely to me during a crisis time of my life and I know when it comes its going to be messy! Any other horror stories out there and I'm not including running out of a pub in canary Wharf. Better sooner than later bud, never easy but if ure not happy, better out of it, when i was younger i just never phoned them. My dad was never happy about my attitude back then. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wario Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Change the locks and block her on your phone. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iantjambo Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Splitting up with your bursd the day before Valentine's Day? This should really be in the 'Being Shan' thread ya horrible **** Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sooperstar Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 I split up with my ex of nearly 7 years 18 months or so ago. She is one of the nicest people you could meet but the last year or so we just became good mates than anything else. It was tough to admit it to each other but I had to say something a week before she was heading off to Spain for a few monyhs to work (something she had done before for Uni so we were prepared for it). It was harder on her than me as I found my current GF a couple of months earlier but we are still friends now and both happy with new people. Good luck. Fixed that for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ray Gin Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Splitting up with your bursd the day before Valentine's Day? This should really be in the 'Being Shan' thread ya horrible **** Quite right. Sod spending money wining and dining her when you can nip it in the bud before any of that shite. Going through a romantic day making her think everything is fine is more shan IMO. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GorgieMIlls Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Just tell her you slept with her mum or best friend That way she will dump you and saves you the job. If she's ok with your actions then she's a keeper Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iantjambo Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Quite right. Sod spending money wining and dining her when you can nip it in the bud before any of that shite. Going through a romantic day making her think everything is fine is more shan IMO. Aye but he's obviously been thinking about it for some time but decides that the 13th February is the day to do it. If she was a complete bitch then fair enough but it sounds like she's far from it. Seems like pretty shabby behaviour to me Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bridge of Djoum Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Can't seem to do it. She has been lovely to me during a crisis time of my life and I know when it comes its going to be messy! Any other horror stories out there and I'm not including running out of a pub in canary Wharf. Any pics? I might be able to take her off your hands, make it a bit easier for you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Unknown user Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Quite right. Sod spending money wining and dining her when you can nip it in the bud before any of that shite. Going through a romantic day making her think everything is fine is more shan IMO. This. Man up. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandy Clark Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Can't seem to do it. She has been lovely to me during a crisis time of my life and I know when it comes its going to be messy! Any other horror stories out there and I'm not including running out of a pub in canary Wharf. If you are sure then do it as soon as possible regardless of the date. No point dragging it on and not fair on either of you. Easy for me to say! Good luck mate. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Masonic Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 if u dont get butterflies when you see her and you dont want to be with her and only her you should end the relationship so someone who actually loves her can make her happy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ibrahim Tall Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Splitting up with your bursd the day before Valentine's Day? This should really be in the 'Being Shan' thread ya horrible **** It's less shan to pretend your in love with her, give her flowers and gifts for Valentines then chuck her the next day out of nowhere? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sooperstar Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 if u dont get butterflies when you see her and you dont want to be with her and only her you should end the relationship so someone who actually loves her can make her happy You read a lot of romantic novels don't you? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
iantjambo Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 It's less shan to pretend your in love with her, give her flowers and gifts for Valentines then chuck her the next day out of nowhere? Aye that's fair enough I suppose. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chester copperpot Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Shite on her curtains. That oughta do it Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kmeister Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Whilst baws deep shout out her sister's name. That ought to do it. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RobboM Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Tbh she's lovely apart from being clumsy as ****! But just not for me. Clumsy??? Get her tae ****... you're better than that! Hope you're ok hun Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Reading some of those comments its really no surprise men are far more likely to kill themselves due to bottling up their feelings and emotions. ! The guy is asking for some advice about a relationship and many of the replies are totally insensitive and immature. My advice is you need to end it as your not happy . Its simple as that. Id advise you to be clear with her why you dont want to be in a relationship and not just generic points like " its not working" Find examples or behaviours which you cannot tolerate any more? But dont be cruel but be honest. She may appreciate it in time. It reminds me when one of my exs choose to tell me he wanted to end our relationship and I asked why? His reply now makes me laugh but it didnt then. e said " basically i cant stand you end anymore ! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jamhammer Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Just be sure. I nearly chucked my Mrs when I was 19 but couldn't bring meself to do it. We've been married for 30 years this year and think she might be a keeper. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
PumpkinJambo Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Can't give much advice on how to do it but please don't do it by text. I've been dumped by text and it was awful. What's worse is that I then went on to dump a later partner in the same way. I hated myself for it. Bizarrely, we're still friends but I still feel awful for not having the guts to end it in person. Good luck. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyJudyJudy Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Reading some of those comments its really no surprise men are far more likely to kill themselves due to bottling up their feelings and emotions. ! The guy is asking for some advice about a relationship and many of the replies are totally insensitive and immature. My advice is you need to end it as your not happy . Its simple as that. Id advise you to be clear with her why you dont want to be in a relationship and not just generic points like " its not working" Find examples or behaviours which you cannot tolerate any more? But dont be cruel but be honest. She may appreciate it in time. It reminds me when one of my exs choose to tell me he wanted to end our relationship and I asked why? His reply now makes me laugh but it didnt then. e said " basically i cant stand you end anymore ! Meant to write " cant stand you any more " Not " end " ....lol Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
WSTR Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Did it happen then? Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chester copperpot Posted February 13, 2016 Share Posted February 13, 2016 Yeah JamesM48 is dying to know! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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